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Saw this on a twitter stream and had to write about it. Now you can turn your Wii remote into a sex toy.. a Mojowijo!!! What’s next… the electric toothbrush (oops..too late we have already tried that). You can use the Mojowijo over the
internet or with people besides you. The movement you make on your remote translates into vibrations on the receiving remote. The site says coming Fall 2010. It will be interesting to see how it works!
It all begins at a young age for girls…worrying about how they look, what clothes they wear and if their
hair is just right. They feel as though they need to keep up with the images that are portrayed on tv,
in movies and magazines. As a society we brain wash young girls from the get go…showing them
what we feel is an appropriate look for today. These girls as young as they are (Ive read as early as 12-
13) also worry about their genital appearance and if it’s acceptable when at that age all they should be
worrying about is having fun with their friends, family vacations, and slumber parties. It’s a scary truth.
These girls worry about the size and shape of their vulvas , whether they will appeal to boys or gross
them out.
Now of course these girls turn into women and continue to have these issues. ..comparing themselves now to
the girls on the porn videos their partner is watching ..thinking…”SHIT!…..mine sure as hell doesn’t look
like that”, giving themselves a horrible complex, not realizing that many of the “porn” vaginas have been airbrushed, nipped and tucked.
Of course these feelings affect your relationship and intimacy. For instance, you won’t have sex
with the light on, you won’t allow your partner to perform oral sex on you, or allow him/her to fondle
you in any way. Perhaps you try to avoid sex altogether.
Yes there are procedures to “fix” the vagina.. whether it be reducing the labia or the clitoral hood or even injecting fat into the surrounding area to plump it up. However you should always realize that you’re not the only one out there who is shy about how your vagina looks and that not every vagina is supposed to look the same. If you’re with someone who is asking you to change it or who is put off by it…DITCH EM…they’re not dating your vagina!
For a great selection of images to show the vast differences in female bits click here. Celebrate your uniqueness!
From one of our readers….
How many times has this happened…?
You’re minding your business, cleaning out the inbox and suddenly out pop up pictures just tagged of your boyfriend with his ex sitting in his lap ( you know..THAT ex.. the one he cheated on with everyone, the one who wont ever go away…the one who sends the emails about missing him).. you click further… wow seems like a whole evening/couple of days even.. piggyback rides, hand holding, hanging with his friends who get you laugh at you behind your back for being the dumb ass.
Riding around in your car…. huh.. Did they fuck on my bed too you wonder?
You look at the calendar trying to figure out exactly when this little escapade happened, wondering where you were. Well of course.. on a trip… working while he plays. The even funnier part is that he paid for the date with your credit card…. now that is the cherry on the pie.
Gosh, you try to imagine when the last time he took you out was, or the last time he held you..let alone even kissed you.. and here he is doing it all with someone else.
Why is it that people feel the need to be disrespectful, and get busted in the silliest way. Why can’t they do what they say, say what they mean and stop the lying? Or is life all about having your cake and eating it too..and to heck with anyone else?
How do you explain this one?
I’m finally back after having my son and ready to tell you how it is…well, according to me. I’m sure you can remember me writing in the past about sex during pregnancy. Some of you may be curious how things are going now that my little bundle has arrived. Most women know just from common knowledge you have to wait at least 6 weeks after birth before you can have intercourse. During that time you’re getting used to being a new mom, dealing with a wide range of raw emotions and sleep deprivation. Honestly I’m still going through that after 7 weeks. I went to my 6 week post labor appointment last week and got the thumbs up from the OB, so you can imagine how excited I was and of course my squeeze was too.
My poor squeeze was feeling neglected since all my attention has been going to the baby. ANYWAY….that very evening we tried making love after putting the baby down. It wasn’t easy. One might think you’d be so excited you’d just jump each other’s bones and screw like jack rabbits….BUT…it’s more like you two have to get reacquainted again in that way. I was nervous! Plus you have so much on your mind as far as the baby, being so exhausted and keeping your house together…I’m a mom…am I supposed to feel sexy..better yet…am I gonna look sexy down there? (I’ll get into Genital Self Image soon) I felt like it was my first time all over again and it physically felt that way too…it was as if having a child made me tighter. Say what! See I figured after giving birth I wouldn’t be as “firm” as I was before, but I was wrong. I had a small tear after delivery and had to get stitches.Maybe I got an extra stitch! Just kidding! I mean with that and all the hormone changes a women isn’t as lubricated and her muscles are more tender than they were before birth, so yes it hurt a little. The solution and Sara’s orders: Plenty of foreplay, lube (I recommend Eros Pjur Silicone) and make sure to try different positions where YOU are in control of the penetration. OH…and of course have patience and don’t force it.
M.A. Has finally given us the sequel to the first story she wrote for us. We know several of you were waiting impatiently.
Suddenly the most devious idea popped into my head as I was contemplating what to do to him. It was cruel it nearly made me orgasm again. I said to him “I’ve decided what I want, I’m going to use my strap-on on you, and after that I’ll let you come for me. BUT I want to make sure you don’t try to play with your cock while I’m fucking you so I am going to put a little contraption on you.. a cock cage”. He made me promise that this wasn’t a ploy, and of course I did, thinking of what his face would look like when he found out my plan.
I had remembered that I had a CB 6000 in my bag of goodies. I got it out and as he eyed me warily as I snapped it on using my own combination lock.
“Get on all fours”. He hesitated, moving slowly. His tight ass poking up, and his balls dangling, inviting me to twist and scratch them. I started lubing up his ass, slowly using my finger to relax it more, moving from one finger to two and then three. I look my dildo and started working it in. I could tell he was a bit humiliated but I kept taunting him “Think about how hard you’ll get to come after I am done with with you”
I pounded him all the while teasing, rubbing my breasts against him and when I felt him really tremble I stopped. I took the harness off and walked off to the bathroom with an extra wiggle in my step saying “I will be right back”
I slip on my clothes and quietly walked out of the room unable to contain my giggles. I had left him there all high and dry with his cock locked up. Let him try to take that off. Once in the lobby, I called his phone, he answered, his voice betraying his confusion “Are you in the bathroom?”, “Nope” I said. “I left…. Just wanted to tell you I had a blast, you looked good on all fours”. “What do you mean you left, you promised me…”
“Well, I lied…. sucks to be you”
He started to stutter asking how he was supposed to explain the cage to his girlfriend. “I guess you will have to hold off on fucking her, or having her see you naked” I responded coldly. “Maybe if you are nice, and I am in the mood to be kind, you can call and ask me for permission and I will give you the code to unlock it. I promise that if you get someone to cut it off or try yourself, you and I will never play again, You are going to do this my way”. With that I hung up feeling deliciously cruel. All this had made me really hot.
The minute I saw the Sqweel I knew I had to test it out. Despite the fact it looked a tad odd, who wouldn’t want a go at a toy with ten tongues? It never occurred to me that I might have an issue overcoming the way it looked. The Sqweel showed up in a nifty tin box. It has a cover that goes over the tongue “outlet” so that you can put it away discreetly. The tongues are made of a soft pliable silicone. 
It took me a while to get my act together and get the AAA batteries it needed, but I finally did and gave myself the afternoon to do my “testing”. You can use the Sqweel in not of two ways…. tongues licking down, or tongues licking up. I personally preferred the licking down position. The sensation felt a bit ticklish, and not completely satisfying. I couldn’t get over the fact that it really was not a sexy looking toy. It looked more like a gimmick and I did not see myself pulling it out and using it anytime soon..alone or with a partner..I would probably die laughing.
I would not reccomend this unless you prefer a light flutter/tickle sensation, and you can get past the goofy way this toy looks!
Lack of communication tends to be the demise of most relationships. Some parties don’t know how to convey their feelings, while others are afraid to speak up. I have often wondered where the lack of communication stems from, whether it is shyness, the fear of being judged or just general embarrassment. I am pretty vocal about letting my partner know where I stand and how I feel and while that works most of the time, sometimes it backfires as the other party feels they are being “bossed” or being “told” what to do which is not my intention. So my question to you is how do you get your point across without being judged and without the other party feeling that you are bossing them…? Do you establish a time out zone during the week to discuss things without judgment. Do you just clam up?
Personally I would always want to know where my other half stood, what their expectations were and how to achieve a compromise to satisfy both parties.
Sorry for the brief lull, but the girls are back! Sara just gave birth to a baby boy, so please join me in wishing her and her squeeze congratulations!
Today I bring you the review of Fun Factory Delight.
The Delight is a nifty toy for those who wish to further explore their G-Spot stimulation. Made of body safe materials as with all other Fun Factory toys, the Delight is made of plastic and silicone, so it is a little harder than a toy made of just silicone (this can be a drawback for some). It comes in an adorable storage/charging box so it can be stashed away discreetly and still be charging and ready for play. As with all G-Spot toys, it really depends on your anatomy, so what may work for one person may not for another. The curves of this toy really permit stimulation of the upper vaginal wall, and it can be tilted in various degrees depending on what feels best. The fact that it vibrates ( 9 speeds and 3 different pulses) is an added bonus for those who need the clitoral stimulation (most women). The design incorporates a little bump for clitoral stimulation, however I found it not to be in the right spot for my anatomy, though it did provide additional labial stimulation. I also found the handle (the curled portion) as little hard to grip the way the manual instructed and the controls a little awkward. All in all though, out of all the G-Spot vibes tested so far, I would rate it the highest.
I have always wondered why men have a plethora of medications helping sexual dysfunction (viagra, cialis, levitra etc) while women have nothing really! The FDA has finally decided to look at a new drug to help women with their libido (AMEN). The new drug is called flibanserin and is being developed by Boehringer Ingelheim. Visit CNN for more information
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