March
08

Companionship As A Commodity

AuthorDina CategoriesInformational, men vs women

A few years ago, I would have never even thought of the prospects of paying for someone to spend time with me. What the heck.. As an attractive woman, I should have all sorts of men swooning to have a date with me. Now that I am older and wiser, the prospect of hiring someone does not seem alien. In fact, it seems to be far better than the alternative – imagine the perfect temporary boyfriend, attentive, kind and most of all giving. There would be nothing to fight about. He would wear what I wanted and be there to please me (of course, I would return the favor as I find it to be such a turn on). There would be no complaining about the rain, the snow boarding or any of that. He would be happy to spend time at   a $1500 a night resort and go to the spa. I on the other hand, would have great memories of a fantastic getaway. I see a win-win situation.

I know some of you will say that such a scenario leads to a deluded point of view regarding relationships, but I am well aware that this is not a relationship, but just a service. Think of it as an add-on. Fantastic Getaway…or Fantastic Getaway with a hot date. I far prefer the latter. I still need to have fun until Mr. Right shows up!

Men have treated sex as a commodity since the beginning of time. I certainly don’t see paying for an hour of wham bam… but a weekend of being seduced while knowing that the outcome will be just what I want sounds like my kind of fun.

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March
03

Form 2 – Run Don’t Walk!

AuthorDina Categoriesreviews, toys

I love the JimmyJane people… adore them in fact. When I first spied the Form 2, it looked interesting enough that I wanted tocheck t out, unfortunately it was back-ordered and I had to cool my jets waiting for it to arrive. I was not disappointed – Great packaging, body safe material, charging stand, different pulse modes and a lock mode so that it does not scare the baggage handlers when packed in your luggage. This little thing packs some serious ooomph. I have always said that my favorite toy to fall back on has  been my tried and trusted silver bullet as nothing else provided the same bang for the size, but the Form 2 has blown it out of the water. The little ears are divine when placed strategically around certain parts of the anatomy and the dual motors not only rock your world, but work in tandem to create some delicious tingling. I loved it so much that after my testing, I bought a few extra to keep on hand and give out as presents!

Click here for some really interesting information on the Form 2 history. Mine has traveled from the bed-stand to the shower to Hawaii…

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February
26

Treasure The Joystick!

AuthorSara CategoriesInformational, tips

 I recently wrote about proper vaginal health…the do’s and don’ts if you will. Well its only fitting that I say my piece about taking care of your joystick as well.

Seeing as how the penis is the most sacred part of a man’s body it should be taken care of and respected. The most obvious ways of course begins with washing and showering each and every day and practicing safe sex. But what about the other “little” things that are important to keeping a healthy member and a happy partner?

Most men prefer to keep a well groomed penis whether it be  , shaving, trimming or lasering. Keeping your area nice and neat has many benefits and some few minor drawbacks. It can make you look bigger, can enhance sexual sensitivity, is inviting to your partner and reduces moisture and odor. Some drawbacks are the expense of waxing/lasering (which FYI are both very popular with men… look up boyzilian),  irritation, ingrown hairs and chafing. Irritation and ingrowns may be avoided by using a fresh razor and also exfoliating the area every time you are in the shower….  your razor is yours alone…SO NO SHARING PLEASE!!

As far as a regular washing…warm water and a mild soap is plenty for your joystick, you just want to make sure that you rinse really well. Vigorously scrubbing is unnecessary, however I feel a lot of men do this thinking it’s what they should be doing….but no, not so. Even our uncircumcised friends…simply pull back the skin and wash with warm water, then of course make sure the area is dried completely. Men don’t understand that most soap leaves a residue which can cause horrible irritation.

Finally  men should be giving themselves exams regularly. Check your testicles for nodules or bumps and any change in size. Also check for physical signs of redness, flesh colored bumps, blisters, and warts. I mean seriously…you know what a healthy penis looks and feels like…at least I should hope. If anything seems off or irregular call your doctor and make an appointment. Don’t be embarrassed. Remember they are doctors and have seen it all.

For the record….I asked my boyfriend what he thought was the most important thing about penis health. He responded, “Plenty of BJ’s” ! Maybe he is onto something.

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February
23

I Made It Just For You (just make sure none of it gets near me)

AuthorMA CategoriesInformational, kink corner

I have always pondered the question of why many men think it is alright for them to cum in your mouth, and have you swallow but will freak the fuck out if you attempt to kiss them after. I do not understand it at all. If I can taste it, so can you… what is up with the double standard? The same goes for women who won’t kiss their partner after he/she goes down on them, or those who freak out if their partner cums in their mouth. Sex is meant to be messy, dirty and extremely intimate (unless you don’t want to be that intimate with the person you are having it with ie paid date, mercy fuck or just desperate fuck), but I don’t get the restrictions when it is your significant other..and if you are not that into them, then maybe you are with the wrong person.

My ideal man would be fine with tasting his own cum, would be willing to snowball and lick the creampie. Not saying that that will always be what happens, but sometimes a girl needs to be extra dirty and I hate being faced with restrictions when playing with someone I am really into.

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February
18

Can You Spank Me Just Right?

Authoradmin CategoriesInformational, kink corner

I am often asked if I would like a spanking, and my usual response is “only if you know how to give one”. A sexual spanking is far more involved than just smacking the person on the receiving end.

First, it involves the verbal tease, telling me how naughty I have been and why I am going to get a spanking..perhaps it is because I wore those thigh highs that you love so much and I caressed your cock as I walked out the door leaving you all alone and a bit uncomfortable. Or perhaps it is because you just feel like cupping my button and watching me squirm while I wait for you to deliver the punishment.

Second, it involves the positioning. Just imagine what a compromising position you are in with your bottom up in the air and your intimate parts exposed, just waiting to be tortured and teased. Whether bent over a knee or on all fours, I never know what to expect or when to expect it.
Finally, a spanking should always involve some other sensations other than just the spanking. It should involve pinching, caressing, nibbling, and when you are ready to spank make sure your hand is cupped and you are spanking the plump portion of the bottom. There is nothing worse than getting spanking by a flat hand. It feels really blunt, dull and not so sexy. Keep in mind that you should start slow and build up the momentum, also once the skin starts to get red, rubbing it with you hands and nails can feel delicious… so does an ice cube.

You can always add paddles (available in many different materials) and crops to your spanking but be sure to clear it with your partner. As for myself, I am rather plain and just prefer hands instead of implements.

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February
13

Definitely Better For You Than Chocolate

Authoradmin Categoriesreviews, toys

A few weeks ago, I got my little paws on the  Better Than Chocolate vibe by Nomi Tang. I am not sure I will give up chocolate for the vibe, but it comes pretty darn close and has no calories. Great packaging, safe materials, waterproof etc but what I love about this vibe is that it is great for teasing and due to its shape can be used easily everywhere… think nipples, neck…. all erogenous zones. It also packs a decent wallop as far as intensity.

The controls are very interesting and I have never encountered anything similar on another toy. Basically everything is managed via a finger swipe or press on a little pad. I liked them once I got used to them.

I will be keeping this little treasure to use when I feel like taking my time and luxuriating in being teased, or when playing alone.

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February
13

BJ Queen

Authoradmin Categoriesreviews, video

I just watched Angel’s Pleasure Principles, The Ultimate Art of Fellatio Volume 1. Let me say that there is nothing remotely sexy about this DVD, unless you find demonstrations on a rather large dildo hot. However, it was no holds barred, and very informative. This lady knows her blowjobs, and I am sure if you follow her instructions and various techniques, you will too. This is not for the faint of heart, she gets down and dirty.

I look forward to trying out my new skills and letting you all know how I fare.

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February
10

Sista Sista!

AuthorSara CategoriesInformational

Based in Prague and solely relying on the revenue of the Internet subscribers, Bigsister.net is an online website where anyone can watch live! This brothel requires its male clients to sign a waiver allowing their encounter to be broadcast live to its online paying viewers ($29.99 Euros per month). Signing this agreement allows these men to “play” at no charge to them. WHAT A DEAL!! They have up to 45 prostitutes at one time to choose from. There are multiple camera views on at all times. This website is reporting over 10,000 hits a day from paying customers! Check it out people!! Let me know what you think!

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February
07

Soft Tampons!

AuthorDina CategoriesInformational, stuff

Many of us like to have sex during that time of the month but hate to have to deal with the mess afterwards. I finally found a great product that works very well, the Beppy sponge tampon. It is anatomically designed to fit your body and engineered to be inserted and removed rather easily. It also comes in very discreet packaging unlike other sponge tampons I have found. Beppy comes in wet and dry formats, the dry sponge requires moistening, while the wet one is already pre-moistened. It all depends on what works for you best.

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February
04

Keep the Cooter Clean and Healthy!

AuthorSara CategoriesInformational, tips

Here are a few tips for good vaginal health.

  • DON’T DOUCHE!! More often than not douching will cause infection. Although you may feel clean afterwards, douching eliminates good bacteria as well as bad.
  • Eat yogurt. Yogurt contains acidophilus which controls the PH and prevents bacterial and yeast infections.
  • Stay away from scented soaps, sprays, pads and tampons. A lot of times these items may cause a severe UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) or yeast infection.
  • Always wear cotton bunders (underwear/panties). Cotton breathes and allows air to flow in your nether regions. Always good to let your body “air” out.
  • Change your tampons and pads every few hours (by the way a few is 3)! Ladies seriously don’t be lazy and wait to change them after 8 hours. It’s horrible for your vaginal health, can cause build up and a bad infection. Leaving a pad on for several hours can cause skin irritation and rashes.
  • Be sure to wipe well and from front to back. Even more so for you thong wearing females. You know why..come on!
  • Bubble baths are fun but don’t squirt the whole bottle in the tub. If you do then shower after. Make sure you rinse really well.

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